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"I swear to God, I'm going to lose my mind," Jennifer* announced as her video popped up on my screen. "Do you know what I did this morning? Before my 8AM board meeting? Before my investor call?" She didn’t wait for my response. "I bought his mother's birthday card. AGAIN. Because apparently, a seven-figure CEO still needs me to remind him about his own mother's birthday. And the worst part? His sister called to thank him for the ‘thoughtful’ card. And he just said, ‘you’re welcome.’" Her...
When you grow up with an Emotionally Immature Parent, being yourself isn’t an option. Instead, you build what I call a Survivor Self—a version of you that’s smaller, quieter, and “appropriate enough” to finally earn their love and attention. This happens due to something called Projective Identification—a concept at the heart of what I teach in Protect Your Peace. (FYI, if you haven’t already, sign up now for Protect Your Peace before it’s gone in just 72 hours!) Projective identification...